CN: This post contains discussions about ageplay, incest, and a brief mention of pedophilia.
Daddy Dom/little girl is a kink that I have skirted around for quite sometime. I have considered myself to lean more towards the submissive side of the D/s spectrum. Recently I have followed through on some more dominant thinking in the bedroom with Hera and we have enjoyed it greatly.
Our experience with DD/lg has so far been limited to the bedroom. We are not sure if it will extend beyond bedroom roleplay.
So what is DD/lg?
Everyone involved in DD/lg has their own definition, but here is mine. A DD/lg dynamic is a dominant/submissive dynamic where the dominant partner is more nurturing, and supportive than the stereotypical dominance involving power and humiliation. DD/lg also includes an element of ageplay, where the submissive takes on a younger role and the dominant and older or parenting role.
What makes me a Daddy?
While I feel I lean towards a more submissive nature, I find that when I take control I get tingly feelings, but not when I move into humiliation and hurting Hera. I find that my dominant side is more nurturing and supporting of Hera.
How did I discover I was into DD/lg?
I’m not really sure what it is that drew me into DD/lg. I think it is driven by the aspect of control over someone, while not allowing it to become a total power exchange. I enjoy the nurturing nature of power, especially over Hera. Guiding her to become a better version of herself.
This dynamic is new between Hera and myself, and we are learning new things about it daily. We are both invested in this, and enjoying it greatly.